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Therapy for Women Affected by Trauma, Abuse, Anxiety, Stress & Low Self-Esteem

Using my own counselling framework, Explore, Empower, Embody; I help you to heal childhood wounds, understand who you are beneath them, release emotional ties to those who hurt you, & build healthier secure relationships.

Therapy in Stoke-On-Trent & Online

At Relight Counselling, I support women who feel stuck in toxic or emotionally abusive relationship patterns.

Are you physically out of the relationship, but mentally & emotionally you feel trapped or attached? 

Many women stay stuck in their past wanting to move forward but just don’t know how.

Together, we unpack & process the pain of the past, including childhood wounds, that often unconsciously our choices, so you can heal your past & break unwanted break patterns.  

If you’re not ready for therapy just yet, my Unpack™ book series is a self-paced guide to building self-awareness & self-compassion, the key ingredients you need to heal. 

Heal Your Past,
Create Your Future

I’m Danielle, a qualified psychodynamic counsellor, author of the Unpack ™ book series & a mum to a SEN child. Over 9 years of study fuel my passion for helping women in Stoke heal from toxic or abusive relationships.

When I became a mum I knew I had to unpack my past to break these cycles for myself & my son

This work isn’t just about healing the past. It’s about protecting your future, so you can finally discover, feel, and be yourself, without the pain of the past.

I’m excited for you to begin this journey, so you can discover your true authentic self beyond the old amour that kept you safe but held you back. 

Why Choose
Relight Counselling?

Professionally Accountable, Qualified Support

Relight Counselling is led by trained professionals who are accountable for the guidance and care they provide. You can trust that every session is rooted in recognised therapeutic approaches, supported by formal qualifications and ongoing professional development.

Specialist Support for What You’re Facing

From anxiety and stress to trauma recovery, loss, and personal growth, our counsellors specialise in the areas that matter most to you. You deserve support that’s tailored to your unique challenges — not a one-size-fits-all approach.

Confidential, Evidence-Based Practice

Your privacy and wellbeing come first. Each session is conducted in a confidential, non-judgmental space where you can explore your experiences safely. Our methods are grounded in evidence-based practice and designed to create long-term, positive change.

    My Commitment to You

    At Relight Counselling, I believe that professional support should empower, not overwhelm. My mission is to help you gain insight, develop healthier coping strategies, and restore balance in your everyday life.

    You’ll receive structured, professional care — not generic advice — from a counsellor who’s accountable for every step of your journey. Because your wellbeing deserves more than guesswork.

    Who I Support

    Women healing from toxic or abusive relationships

    Single mums feeling overwhelmed or stuck

    Mums of children with SEN or disabilities

    Mums dealing with a difficult or abusive ex partner

    Women struggling with anxiety, depression , or burnout

    Those healing from childhood trauma or low self-worth


    Relight Your
    Authentic Shine

    My personal counselling framework to relight your authentic shine consist of 3 vital pillars:

    Explore

    With your counsellor, you will explore both current and past issues. There will likely be themes or patterns that emerge. Through psychodynamic tools, the unconscious will be brought to light — which often reveals the root of the present issue(s).

    Empower

    Your counsellor is your guide and will help you put the pieces together so that you can gain greater awareness. This new level of insight is empowering, as it helps you feel more in control. The main focus is for you to gain insight with the support of your counsellor, thereby increasing your confidence and sense of empowerment.

    Embody

    From exploring your experiences to empowering you with new insights, psychodynamic counselling supports you in embodying real transformation. By working through unconscious patterns and deeply rooted emotions, you’ll integrate these changes into your daily life. This allows you to live with greater authenticity, self-awareness, and a deeper connection to your true self.

    Relight Your Goals

    I understand that being a Mum can make it difficult to focus on your own goals, especially when you’re constantly juggling the emotional and practical demands of motherhood. That’s why I offer monthly goal-setting sessions designed to guide you in defining clear, meaningful goals and implementing strategies rooted in psychological science—despite the challenges of everyday life.

    In these sessions, we’ll explore your motivations, address potential barriers (such as time constraints or feelings of guilt), and create a customised plan that works for your lifestyle.

    We’ll also consider the role of motherhood and the specific struggles that may arise, like meal times, bedtime routines, or other child-related challenges. These challenges may be particularly difficult for SEND and/or single parents, who often face additional demands and unique pressures. By looking at these areas, we can find ways to make these routines smoother, so your overall goals become easier to achieve.

    Using techniques grounded in human behaviour, we’ll align your goals with your core values and break them into manageable, achievable steps. I’ll also share methods for making new habits easier to implement, leveraging the power of psychology to reduce resistance, increase motivation, and build consistency, without feeling overwhelmed.

    Not quite ready
    for therapy ?

    The Unpack™ book series bridges the gap between self-discovery and professional healing. It ’s a gentle, accessible way to begin exploring your healing journey. If you’re not quite ready for therapy, this is a powerful first step.

    Book One; “Heal Your Past, Create Your Future”

    “Wow what a wonderful book- truly inspirational and relatable, providing support for both teenagers, and adults. I like how personal the book is also and how the story unfolds. The book provides both psychological support and advice as well as emotional guidance. This book really is a must have on your book shelves- you won’t be disappointed, you will not want to put it down!!!!”

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      A Warm, Welcoming Space to Begin Your Healing Journey. Relight Counselling based in Milton Stoke on Trent ST2

      Why I Don’t Ask for
      Therapy Reviews

      The bridge between self help and therapy. Unpack Your Emotional Baggage, out now on amazon. Link below Unpack book one

      Start Your
      Journey Toward
      Healing Today

      Taking the first step can feel daunting, but you don’t have to do it alone.
      Let ’s work together to help you find light, balance, and hope again.

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